9 Personal Year | June is a 6 Personal Month
🤔 Reflection for June: This is the month to focus on home and on nurturing your relationships.
Much of your time in June will be spent on matters relating to your home, family, and relationships overall. June puts some fire and heat underneath this part of your life.
Since this is a year of transition, perhaps you’re experiencing a death in the family, a divorce, a health crisis (either your own or of someone close to you), or a departure of some kind.
And can I offer you a friendly air-hug?
The 9 Personal Year is a key part of a grand transformation cycle. So, this is really an important and challenging year. Yet the beauty is in the absolute necessity to reinvent and in many ways you’re not the only one being singled out.
The 9 Personal Year is extremely emotional and sometimes forces transformation by bringing in emotional or actual affairs or sexual relations that make you get serious about reviewing what’s not working in your current relationship.
Understand that this doesn’t apply to everyone in their 9 Personal Year! Yet this does often transpire—and I usually don’t touch on this and how it might show up—and so I think it’s valuable to discuss it as a possible contributor to the emotional intensity of the 9 Personal Year.
Whether or not the affair carries over into a lasting relationship is up for grabs (and usually isn’t really the point). And this affair doesn’t have to be physical — it can be an emotional affair as well.
Yet its purpose in the 9 Personal Year is to push a decision and force an outcome. Any fence-sitting just isn’t allowed. It’s time to choose one side of the fence or the other. Often this experience simply allows you to open your eyes to what just isn’t viable anymore.
I had a friend who was really struggling with his marriage for years. He was in his 9 Personal Year and found himself initiating a possible affair with a co-worker, something that he would never, ever have considered during his 10+ year marriage.
The co-worker actually rejected the advance by my friend and when she did, it was this huge wake-up call for him. He told me that he literally looked at himself and didn’t recognize himself anymore. Even though he’d been extremely unhappy with his marriage for years, he would never consider having an affair.
And yet there he was, almost as though he was seeing himself from the vantage point of looking at a person he didn’t even know. He knew then and there that he had to move forward with a divorce, simply because he was a man who valued commitment and knew that if he found himself pursuing an affair, then his marriage was truly broken.
So again, sometimes things happen in a 9 Personal Year that offer surprises you can never imagine.
And if this doesn’t apply to you, it doesn’t apply to you! You may not be in a partnership, marriage or relationship at this point in your life. So take this observation simply as an observation about the deep levels of possibly and know that many numerologist’s observe that the 9 Personal Year is a year of deep emotions.
I know you’re feeling the intensity, unless you’re very good at holding everything at arms length. Some feel it as a slow bubbling deep down inside—while others experience it as a huge cosmic slap-in-the-face.
I want to focus on the most optimal and positive elements that this year can bring to you.
This is a completion—a door closing. With that, there’s a potential fulfillment of some of your dreams. Have you dreamed of getting a new job? Have you fantasized about getting a divorce? Are you grappling with where and how you want to live in a bigger and more on-path way?
This closing door isn’t a failure. You can choose to label whatever it is a devastating experience. Yet, let’s turn it around.
Instead, it’s a reward for all you’ve done and accomplished during these past eight years. When you step through to the other side of this closing door next year, you’ll have an opening into new opportunities and new interests in your life in an extraordinary way.
So the obvious difficulty resides in being ready and willing to let go of what might only tether you to a stagnant past. Remember—if you aren’t growing, you’re atrophying. This is a universal and biological imperative.
This is a year where emotions can be raw and exposed. It’s a time where you’ll be challenged to act with compassion, tolerance, and forgiveness—not only with others, but with yourself.
The tide in your life is out rather than in during the year. So it’s a time to truly, simply be. To feel. To tap into how you feel. How does this truly, really feel?
During your 6 Personal Month of June, expect some heightened family responsibilities and home-based duties your way.
The trick this month is to balance your sense of responsibility and service to others with your own needs. Give with healthy boundaries. Ask for help and support when you need it.
June brings some issues up around obligation, particularly as it pertains to your home situation, family, and relationships.
Are you “making good” on your obligations or are you avoiding them? Or are you going above and beyond anything humanly possible and feeling obligated in ways that are draining, frustrating or demoralizing?
There will be decisions to be made around how you set-up and tend to your obligations. This can show up as warm-and-fuzzy feelings of togetherness, healthy support, and mutual loving respect. Or perhaps it’s time to make changes and balance those obligations in a different way.
The key is:Â Do you feel taken advantage of? Do you give more than you get support back? Or perhaps you need to step up and follow through more consistently with your own promises and obligations.
Either way, these engagements with friends, colleagues, and family will be a focal point in June. The emphasis is on the healthy and loving give-and-take. This can be a superb month to plan fun activities with those you love.
It can also be a month where your home takes on additional significance. If you’re looking to move, spiff up your current home or just evaluate where and how you feel “at home,” June offers additional energy supporting those themes.
The key is to take care of your obligations and yet also allow others to follow through with their obligations to you! Relationships are two-way streets, right? It doesn’t work when one person is always doing the heavy lifting. Those dynamics will come to the forefront for you this month.
>>If you want to review the nuts-and-bolts of the 9 Personal Year, watch this short video.
Note: There are two schools of thought regarding the Personal Year.
The first is that it runs from January 1 – Dec. 31 of each calendar year.
The Personal Year is derived from adding together your MONTH of birth + the DAY of birth + the CURRENT YEAR.
Therefore, the logical flow is that it takes place for the calendar year for which it is being calculated.
**Remember: If you subscribe to this mode of thought, your Personal Month RESETS and CHANGES on January 1.
The second mode of thought is that the Personal Year runs from birthday to birthday, somewhat like a Solar Return in Astrology.
If you know my work at all, you’ll know that I’m someone who simply attempts to point out the different schools of thought and then the ball is in your court. It’s up to each of us to determine method makes the most sense to us and feels right or correct.
It’s like anything else in life. People can get really adamant about the correct diet (keto? paleo? vegan? gluten-free? vegetarian? and on and on).
You can go to different doctors with the same condition and get different courses of treatment. You can study Pythagorean numerology, or subscribe more to Chaldean numerology, or other modalities.
I don’t mean to belabor it, but it might surprise you how many people contact me and leave comments insisting that their particular methodology is the only right way to do it.
If you subscribe to the birthday-to-birthday way of thinking, you calculate this way:Â Using your birth date, add the MONTH + DAY + YEAR OF YOUR LAST BIRTHDAY
Just know that you’ll change into a new Personal Year on your BIRTHDAY, meaning that you’ll also change which Personal Year you read for your Forecast! This mode of thinking is more confusing until you wrap your brain around it. 💥
So I just want to be clear. It’s up to YOU to determine what school of thought feels right to you. And it’s ends up being just that: HOW IT FEELS. Sit with it. Ponder it. Feel into it.
If you feel the Personal Year runs from birthday-to-birthday, you will still reference the forecast for your Personal Year, yet the flow of it is a bit more wonky. Meaning: On your birthday, it switches gears and might feel as if it’s more of a dramatic or abrupt shift.
Either way, the forecast still applies to you. Just use your own mind, body, and spirit to make the most out of the information.
For those of you just starting to follow the monthly forecasts, I always share a photo of my Grand Dogs. Both of my daughter’s are proud dog Mom’s. Rio is a Pitbull mix and Oscar is a Wire-Haired Fox Terrier. ❤️
