1 Personal Year | May is a 6 Personal Month
🧠Directive for May: This is the month to focus on how you co-create in your home, family, and relationship life.
May is upon us and there’s no better time to circle back and offer a reminder about the key elements or themes you’re working with all year long in your 1 Personal Year.
I like to describe the Personal Year as knowing the theme to your party! It’s so much more fun!
And I think it’s valuable to think of it in exactly that way. As if you’re showing up for a party (that you happen to have to attend for an entire twelve months!), so most certainly you’d rather know if it’s a baby shower, birthday party, Bachelor (or Bachelorette) Party, Memorial service, or a drinking party with Charades.
Ah, yes. Don’t show up to the wrong party wearing the wrong outfit!
For you in your 1 Personal Year, the key themes are:Â new beginnings, developing and exerting independence, and planting seeds for this brand new cycle.
What I love about numerology is that it offers us the key elements that are always in play, supporting us and offering opportunities.
So, if we know the themes and energies that are available to us, then we can focus and intentionally use that supportive energy to our benefit.
Either we can use the energy OR the energy can use us!
With that said, May is a 6 Personal Month.
The 6 is all about home, family, responsibility, and relationships.
So how might this show up in your 1 Personal Year?
If you’re coupled, this is a month where you can really bask in what—and who— you love. This can be a beautiful month for recommitment or up-leveling your significant intimate partnership.
This can manifest as making date night a priority, adding some sizzle into your sex life or even deciding to do something like couples counseling or a relationship building class (or something along those lines).
If you’ve been thinking about making a significant shift in a relationship, you may want to initiate this change sometime around May 17th.Â
When the 6 shows up in a cycle (as it is in May for your 6 Personal Month), it pulls in opportunities and experiences that often force your hand — meaning, if a relationship hasn’t been working for you and you’ve just been holding on hoping it will get better or holding on because you’re afraid to rock the boat, often the energy of the 6 calls in something that will push that envelope.
This is equally true if you’re hovering around the decision of putting a ring on it, so to speak. The month of May might be the time where an important relationship is taken to the next level of commitment.
If you’re a parent, this is also a wonderful time to place some focus and energy into your kids (including grandkids or fur-babies). The energy of the 6 pulls you toward feeling the need to do some caretaking and nurturing for those you love.
If single, this is a true “up close and personal” reflective month around issues related to relationships and your home life. You can be basking in your freedom and perfectly aligned with yourself as a “successfully single” person. Not everyone who’s single is actively on the prowl for a relationship partner!
If you’re not looking for a relationship partner, the 6 energy for the month offers you added “umph” with business partnerships, friendships, and other close relationships.
If this is the case for you, the topics that might pop in this month have to do with your sense of home. Where do you feel at home? Where is your nest? How do you love and how do you want to be loved overall?
Single and ready to connect with someone? Are you ready and open to a co-creative relationship? May might brings someone into your life with strong possibilities for the future. It may involve someone you met last month or potentially someone who’s just arrived on the scene, perhaps sometime around May 5th or 9th.
I find that most often the 1 Personal Year holds special intensity around career and work. Yet the 1 Personal Year can also open doors to a new beginning with a relationship or with relationships overall. Yet usually, this happens in tandem — you’re reestablishing yourself on every level during a 1 Personal Year.
If this is the case for you, know that May is the time to devote yourself to your relationship life in whatever way that’s showing up for you now.
“Home” is also a key element.
This can be across the board. Are you looking to make a move, maybe even to an entirely different geographical location? Perhaps you’re itching to dive into a remodeling product, build that new water feature in your backyard, or do a massive Spring cleaning.
Maybe this shows up as finding a new living arrangement for an aging parent or grandparent. Or dealing with some other urgent or responsibility-laden issues having to do with your family.
On a more subliminal level, this can be a month where you’re asking yourself a lot of questions on an internal level. Do I feel at home in my home? In my body? Am I involved in relationships that are feeding me or draining me? Where do I need to step up and take more responsibility and where am I perhaps too responsible and need to back off and allow others to do their fair share?
This can also be a time where you’re asked to step up to the plate and offer love, support, assistance, or a listening ear.
The energy related to your 1 Personal Year is pressing you to start fresh, assert your independence, and generally get somewhat cocky about standing on your own two feet.
This can be a year where you’re fairly self-absorbed. Not in a bad way, necessarily. You’re setting things up for yourself and tapping into your independence. Remember, this is the final “push” of your three-year transformation cycle that started in 2022.
I love this comment by Bruce Springsteen, who happens to be a 1 Life Path (the same “vibe” that you’re experiencing with your 1 Personal Year).
He says: “Life is a blank white page, daring you to write on it.”
The energy of your 1 Personal Year colliding with the nurturing and loving energy of the 6 sets the stage for a beautiful and dynamic month for co-creation on every level. A key focus is on the idea of co-creation. How can you co-create rather than blaze along solo or participate in co-dependencies?
This is a great concept for you as you carry forward in your powerful year of new beginnings. Consider this year the rough draft to your new novel. Concentrate on Chapter 1 and the rest will follow.
**For those of you who are new to the Monthly Forecast, each month I share pics of my Grand-Dogs! These are my daughters’ dogs: Oliver is the senior gentleman (with one blue eye and one brown eye). Oscar is the Wire-Haired Fox Terrier. Rio is a Pitbull-Mix. They are the Dynamic Trio!
