

3 Personal Year | March is a 6 Personal Month
🤔 Reflection for March: How can you find ways to nurture yourself and extend loving support to others?
March is a number 6 Personal Month for those of you experiencing a 3 Personal Year. It’s a month where your relationships are being fine-tuned and tested. And even more than that, the focus is on what it really looks and feels like to take care of yourself. That’s under the microscope at the moment.
The 6 Personal Month brings in the energy of home, family, responsibility, and relationships.
When we look at the word “supportive,” what does that actually bring to mind for you? One of the deeper lessons with the 6 has to do with where you’re responsible for others, yet in an enabling sort-of way.
It’ll also offer up experiences encouraging you to see where you might benefit from accepting help and support from other people. Are you the Rock of Gibraltar for everyone else and yet feel frustrated that you have nobody in your life who supports you in a similar way?
Whenever you experience a number 6 in a cycle (as you are during the four weeks of March), you’ll be challenged with responsibility — first and foremost, being responsible for yourself in a deep and authentic way. Only then can you take on the additional responsibilities that come to the table to be worked with this month.
It’s as though you’re on an airplane and the flight attendant goes through the safety instructions prior to take-off. This is the part where they instruct you to place the oxygen mask on your face before helping anyone else, otherwise you won’t be useful to anyone at all.
It’s the same idea. Make sure you take care of yourself first before you attempt to help or support anyone else.
Are you giving too much and enabling unproductive behavior in others? Or avoiding taking the responsibility that is rightfully yours?
Those will be key questions for you this month and most likely they will rise to the surface when you have an event or an experience that pushes you to make some determinations about how to respond.
Relationship dynamics are up for review and will demand a little tweaking on your part.
Around March 21st is a golden time for planning some one-to-one time with your sweetheart. It can also be the month where you or a partner finally decides it’s time to exit. The number 6 is known as the “marriage and divorce” number. It’s all about deciding what stays and what goes.
You may find it a particularly opportune time for fun with your own kids or the children in your life, around March 9th or 15th. These can be little ones, adult children or fur-babies!
I’ll also mention that this can be a time where you’re drawn to some kind of “inner child” work, perhaps by reading a book, listening to a podcast or taking a class or attending a retreat where this is part of the program.
Whenever the 6 shows up, it’s time to bring in the family. This can be a month where you have a few family-related responsibilities to contend with.
You’ll benefit from focusing on creating a sense of harmony and balance in your home. This goes for furnishings and décor — and also for your personal and intimate family interactions. Perhaps it’s time for early Spring cleaning, deciding on a new paint color for the office or mapping out your ideas for that organic herb garden you’ve been dreaming about.
Given that March offers you a container of 6 energy, be aware when you might be called upon to step into a few more responsibilities, whether it’s with friends or family.
Overall, this is a month where you’ll be called upon to strengthen your vocal cords (so to speak) and voice your thoughts and feelings in a way that you feel heard and that also is communicated in a way that others can actually hear you.
If you’re single and open to a new relationship, this is a perfect month to freshen up or reformulate your dating profile and put yourself out there.
The 3 Personal Year opens the door for emotional connection and the emphasis this month is on home and family. Find enjoyment wherever you can. Infuse some playfulness into all your engagements. This is the month to connect with your tribe and nourish your relationships.
CONTEMPLATIVE THOUGHT FOR MARCH:
It feels downright wrong not to mention all of the Astrology that’s happening right now! On February 28, 2025 SEVEN PLANETS fell into alignment, which is, well, it’s a big deal!
See what my colleagues and Astrology experts The AstroTwins have to say about it!
March itself is a wild and dynamic month of Mercury in Retrograde from March 15 to April 7 , not to mention two eclipses. And I’m sure there are other aspects that I’m not mentioning here, and yet you get the picture.
There’s A LOT of cosmic energies being shaken (or stirred!) up in March! So just understand that all of us will benefit from going and flowing right now. Release expectations (remember the 9 Universal Year!) and be open to possibility.
>>If you want a reminder about the nuts-and-bolts of the 3 Personal year, watch this short video.
Note: There are two schools of thought regarding the Personal Year.
The first is that it runs from January 1 – Dec. 31 of each calendar year.
The Personal Year is derived from adding together your MONTH of birth + the DAY of birth + the CURRENT YEAR.
Therefore, the logical flow is that it takes place for the calendar year for which it is being calculated.
**Remember: If you subscribe to this mode of thought, your Personal Month RESETS and CHANGES on January 1.
The second mode of thought is that the Personal Year runs from birthday to birthday, somewhat like a Solar Return in Astrology.
If you know my work at all, you’ll know that I’m someone who simply attempts to point out the different schools of thought and then the ball is in your court. It’s up to each of us to determine method makes the most sense to us and feels right or correct.
It’s like anything else in life. People can get really adamant about the correct diet (keto? paleo? vegan? gluten-free? vegetarian? and on and on).
You can go to different doctors with the same condition and get different courses of treatment. You can study Pythagorean numerology, or subscribe more to Chaldean numerology, or other modalities.
I don’t mean to belabor it, but it might surprise you how many people contact me and leave comments insisting that their particular methodology is the only right way to do it.
If you subscribe to the birthday-to-birthday way of thinking, you calculate this way:Â Using your birth date, add the MONTH + DAY + YEAR OF YOUR LAST BIRTHDAY
Just know that you’ll change into a new Personal Year on your BIRTHDAY, meaning that you’ll also change which Personal Year you read for your Forecast! This mode of thinking is more confusing until you wrap your brain around it. 💥
So I just want to be clear. It’s up to YOU to determine what school of thought feels right to you. And it’s ends up being just that: HOW IT FEELS. Sit with it. Ponder it. Feel into it.
If you feel the Personal Year runs from birthday-to-birthday, you will still reference the forecast for your Personal Year, yet the flow of it is a bit more wonky. Meaning: On your birthday, it switches gears and might feel as if it’s more of a dramatic or abrupt shift.
Either way, the forecast still applies to you. Just use your own mind, body, and spirit to make the most out of the information.
**For those of you who are new to the Monthly Forecast, each month I share pics of my Grand-Dogs! These are my daughters’ dogs: Oliver is the senior gentleman (with one blue eye and one brown eye). Oscar is the Wire-Haired Fox Terrier. Rio is a Pitbull-Mix. They are the Dynamic Trio!