Why you Might Push Love Away | 1 Life PathNovember 13, 2023
Why You Might Push Love Away | 3 Life PathNovember 14, 2023
Why you Might Push Love Away |
2 Life Path
Our involvement with love and relationships are one of the primary reasons we’re here in this world.
As a numerologist, this is one of the key elements people want more insight about. I’m always asked why a relationship didn’t work or how to attract the perfect partner.
Mostly I’m asked: “So what’s my problem? What am I doing wrong? What am I missing?”
Understand that we all have unique issues that influence the way we engage with and approach relationships—whether those are relationships with our family, friends, colleagues or lovers.
Yet knowing some of the innate challenges you might experience is always beneficial and offers some potential insight and areas of illumination that can be useful in defining and understanding how you present yourself in your relationship life and what some of those shadows might be that sneak up and sabotage us.
Knowing your Life Path number is similar to knowing your Sun Sign in astrology.
I would suggest that you broaden your understanding of the complexity of how you might deal with love and relationship by looking at both your Life Path number and also your Expression number, which can be compared in some ways to the Rising Sign in astrology.
So if you know both of those, it’s suggested to read the explanation for both.
Ultimately, when looking at relationship compatibility, I also focus on the Soul Urge number.
Since we’re examining how you might push love away, don’t take these observations personally.
This is what the numbers bring to you, after all! Instead position yourself to look through a viewfinder of curiosity rather than judgment. This is designed to be informative, not critical or judgmental.
Here’s why you might push love away — 2 Life Path
The 2 Life Path is the heart and soul of any relationship. You’re a mediator, diplomat, and your primary purpose is to develop your sense of love, harmony, and balance in whatever you do.
You’re all about love—giving and receiving unconditional love. It’s vital to your feelings of accomplishment and happiness in life to have a satisfying intimate relationship. You want and need a relationship to feel as though you’re fulfilling your life’s purpose.
When it comes to love, here’s the news for the 2.
Since relationships are an integral part of your life’s work, you’ll get some test runs in the love department. Your biggest obstacle is your overweening sense of wanting to be what you think everyone wants you to be—whatever that might be.
And most often this is totally made up in your own head.
You’re the ultimate “I want you to want me” sorta’ guy or gal. As a 2, you’re learning to define yourself—not to rely on outside acknowledgement and approval from others.
You can push love away by being emotionally hurt so early and so often that you project either a desperation or a tense aversion to entering into—and to sustaining—a relationship. Your tendency is to immerse yourself in another person, often to the point of smothering others or losing your own essence in the process.
Ultimately, your success in love resides in not mutating yourself to please others—yet rather by stepping into your own individual identity. Healthy emotional boundaries, anyone? Open and direct communication with a partner is crucial and yet often a very fearful path for the 2 Life Path to tread, yet innate insecurity can stand in the way of healthy co-creative relationships.
A reason why you might push love away? Wanting love to the point of desperation mixed with over-giving (then withdrawing with resentment).