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Why you Might Push Love Away |
1 Life Path
Our involvement with love and relationships are one of the primary reasons we’re here in this world.
As a numerologist, this is one of the key elements people want more insight about. I’m always asked why a relationship didn’t work or how to attract the perfect partner.
Mostly I’m asked: “So what’s my problem? What am I doing wrong? What am I missing?”
Understand that we all have unique issues that influence the way we engage with and approach relationships—whether those are relationships with our family, friends, colleagues or lovers.
Yet knowing some of the innate challenges you might experience is always beneficial and offers some potential insight and areas of illumination that can be useful in defining and understanding how you present yourself in your relationship life and what some of those shadows might be that sneak up and sabotage us.
Knowing your Life Path number is similar to knowing your Sun Sign in astrology.
I would suggest that you broaden your understanding of the complexity of how you might deal with love and relationship by looking at both your Life Path number and also your Expression number, which can be compared in some ways to the Rising Sign in astrology.
So if you know both of those, it’s suggested to read the explanation for both.
Ultimately, when looking at relationship compatibility, I also focus on the Soul Urge number.
Since we’re examining how you might push love away, don’t take these observations personally.
This is what the numbers bring to you, after all! Instead position yourself to look through a viewfinder of curiosity rather than judgment. This is designed to be informative, not critical or judgmental.
Here’s why you might push love away — 1 Life Path
As a 1 Life Path, you’re here to get to know yourself. Really—from the ground up. Your primary purpose is to develop your sense of creativity and confidence in whatever you do.
You’re here to learn how to individuate yourself from others, develop your sense of independence, and then get on the road to attainment and achievement. You’re meant for leadership and are an innovator.
You’re the most self-focused of all the Life Path numbers because it’s your mission in life to get to know your self on every level.
When it comes to love, the 1 often leans towards needing to be dominant and the one who’s in charge in the relationship. And while that might work for some, mostly it’s a recipe for an unbalanced—and ultimately—unhealthy dynamic.
You need someone who’s your cheerleader, your support, and who idolizes you. Because of this, you often attract partners who are more like students and you take on more the role of teacher. Yet as soon as the student catches up with the teacher (and sometimes surpasses the teacher), well then, that’s when the unraveling begins.
The 1 is learning how to broaden the viewfinder and step outside of yourself and actually care about someone else in an unconditional way. The 1 can be fairly self-centered or self-focused.
You can push love away simply by not having an awareness about other people’s feelings and desires.
Love can feel of secondary importance to you as you make your way in your work world and do what it takes to climb that ladder. You may distance yourself from love by doing the most oxymoronic thing—becoming the ultimate co-dependent.
Ultimately, your success in love resides in waking up to the fact that you need to partner with someone who’s your equal financially, spiritually, and in every other way. Only then will you understand how to co-create a thriving relationship. In relationship, it’s not all about you all the time.