Why You Might Push Love Away | 2 Life PathNovember 13, 2023
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Why you Might Push Love Away |
3 Life Path
Our involvement with love and relationships are one of the primary reasons we’re here in this world.
As a numerologist, this is one of the key elements people want more insight about. I’m always asked why a relationship didn’t work or how to attract the perfect partner.
Mostly I’m asked: “So what’s my problem? What am I doing wrong? What am I missing?”
Understand that we all have unique issues that influence the way we engage with and approach relationships—whether those are relationships with our family, friends, colleagues or lovers.
Yet knowing some of the innate challenges you might experience is always beneficial and offers some potential insight and areas of illumination that can be useful in defining and understanding how you present yourself in your relationship life and what some of those shadows might be that sneak up and sabotage us.
Knowing your Life Path number is similar to knowing your Sun Sign in astrology.
I would suggest that you broaden your understanding of the complexity of how you might deal with love and relationship by looking at both your Life Path number and also your Expression number, which can be compared in some ways to the Rising Sign in astrology.
So if you know both of those, it’s suggested to read the explanation for both.
Ultimately, when looking at relationship compatibility, I also focus on the Soul Urge number.
Since we’re examining how you might push love away, don’t take these observations personally.
This is what the numbers bring to you, after all! Instead position yourself to look through a viewfinder of curiosity rather than judgment. This is designed to be informative, not critical or judgmental.
The 3 Life Path is a master or mistress of all things expressive.
Your primary purpose is to develop your sense of creative self-expression and emotional sensitivity in whatever you do.
The 3 Life Path thrives in the spotlight with performance, entertaining, or any creative and communicative endeavor.
You’re most often intelligent, curious, and dynamic. Witty and a quick-thinker, the 3 Life Path is a force to be reckoned with!
When it comes to love, you’re full of passion and need intense engagement with an intimate partner. Yet you often attract “takers” in your life—partners who are more like projects—even though you don’t consciously seek that out. If there’s one thing you require it’s that you’re emotionally supported and heard in your relationship. Yet the problem is that somehow you attract those who are (not consciously, mind you!) intent on dimming your light. You attract narcissists and the emotionally unavailable like flies to fly paper.
You can push love away by either being emotionally self-indulgent or alternately emotionally withholding. You expect others to read your mind and fulfill every emotional corner of your existence, which isn’t humanly possible.
Ultimately, your success in love resides in “becoming one” with your emotional life to such a degree that you open yourself to a partner who can be your wing-person across the board without needing to be your absolute emotional caretaker.
A reason why you might push love away? Emotional volatility mixed with deep emotional wounding.