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6 Life Path
Our involvement with love and relationships are one of the primary reasons we’re here in this world.
As a numerologist, this is one of the key elements people want more insight about. I’m always asked why a relationship didn’t work or how to attract the perfect partner.
Mostly I’m asked: “So what’s my problem? What am I doing wrong? What am I missing?”
Understand that we all have unique issues that influence the way we engage with and approach relationships—whether those are relationships with our family, friends, colleagues or lovers.
Yet knowing some of the innate challenges you might experience is always beneficial and offers some potential insight and areas of illumination that can be useful in defining and understanding how you present yourself in your relationship life and what some of those shadows might be that sneak up and sabotage us.
Knowing your Life Path number is similar to knowing your Sun Sign in astrology.
I would suggest that you broaden your understanding of the complexity of how you might deal with love and relationship by looking at both your Life Path number and also your Expression number, which can be compared in some ways to the Rising Sign in astrology.
So if you know both of those, it’s suggested to read the explanation for both.
Ultimately, when looking at relationship compatibility, I also focus on the Soul Urge number.
Since we’re examining how you might push love away, don’t take these observations personally.
This is what the numbers bring to you, after all! Instead position yourself to look through a viewfinder of curiosity rather than judgment. This is designed to be informative, not critical or judgmental.
Of all the Life Path numbers, the 6 Life Path is meant for a life built on love and relationship. You go together like love and marriage—horse and carriage!
A 6 Life Path’s optimal expression is being responsible and also capable of allowing others their own lives without judging and criticizing them. You allow for personal imperfections while being a nurturing presence. You’re a visionary who trusts—and is inspired by—your vision of the “big picture.”
Your life’s purpose is to reconcile your high ideals with practical reality and to accept yourself, the world, and the present moment by embracing the perfection of all the apparent imperfection.
When it comes to love, you’re the cosmic parent and natural nurturer. Yet since that is a focal point for you, the 6 Life Path has a few hoops to jump through on the way to lasting and healthy partnerships.
The 6 Life Path feels a vast void when not actively engaged in a relationship and you can find yourself “otherwise spoken for” earlier rather than later in life. You derive a distinct level of satisfaction when you’re deeply ensconced as a couple. The last choice for your theme song would be “Love The One You’re With.” You only want to be with the one you love, period.
You can push love away when your unrealistic expectations and ideals about your partner reach out to crush them and—as a result—your relationship. The 6 Life Path has a bar that is so high in the love department that it can be mission impossible to please or satisfy you.
You find the smallest (or the largest!) of your partner’s infractions unacceptable and then default to scathing judgment and harsh criticism. Understand that this stems from your own exceedingly high levels of expectations for your own behavior. You’re a perfectionist, after all. And while that’s part of your charm and overall effectiveness in life, it can prove to be a toxin within your love life.
A reason why you might push love away? Perfectionism mixed with unrealistic idealism.