Why You Might Push Love Away | 5 Life Path

Why you Might Push Love Away |

5 Life Path

Our involvement with love and relationships are one of the primary reasons we’re here in this world.

As a numerologist, this is one of the key elements people want more insight about. I’m always asked why a relationship didn’t work or how to attract the perfect partner.

Mostly I’m asked: “So what’s my problem? What am I doing wrong? What am I missing?”

Understand that we all have unique issues that influence the way we engage with and approach relationships—whether those are relationships with our family, friends, colleagues or lovers.

Yet knowing some of the innate challenges you might experience is always beneficial and offers some potential insight and areas of illumination that can be useful in defining and understanding how you present yourself in your relationship life and what some of those shadows might be that sneak up and sabotage us.

Knowing your Life Path number is similar to knowing your Sun Sign in astrology.

I would suggest that you broaden your understanding of the complexity of how you might deal with love and relationship by looking at both your Life Path number and also your Expression number, which can be compared in some ways to the Rising Sign in astrology.

So if you know both of those, it’s suggested to read the explanation for both.

Ultimately, when looking at relationship compatibility, I also focus on the Soul Urge number.

Since we’re examining how you might push love away, don’t take these observations personally.

This is what the numbers bring to you, after all! Instead position yourself to look through a viewfinder of curiosity rather than judgment. This is designed to be informative, not critical or judgmental.

The 5 Life Path is built for sexual relationships, yet not necessarily for long-term monogamous relationships—at least not usually at the get-go. A 5 Life Path’s optimal expression is fearlessness, adventurousness, self-discipline, and the ability to show others how to live their lives fearlessly.

Your personal mission is to find inner freedom through discipline, focus, and depth of experience. Yours is the most sensual and sensuous of the Life Paths. You’re here to experience the world in all of its tactile glory—and you’re acutely sensitive to how things look, feel, taste, and smell. You’re here to experience all the sensual world has to offer—within certain perimeters!

When it comes to love, you’re often the easy come/easy go kinda’ guy or gal. Experience is the name of your game and so you’re drawn to the unusual, if not the dramatic.

Not that you won’t try out the usual, yet it won’t hold your attention for long. The grass is always greener in somebody else’s bedroom—until you’ve “been there and done that” and make a conscious determination to reign it in.

Often the 5 Life Path can live by rather unorthodox or at least non-traditional sexual or relationship morés—open marriage, no belief in traditional marriage, or a host of other more creative approaches to relationships.

You can push love away in one of two ways. You don’t fully grasp the way you indulge yourself and quickly move on to the next adventure. Or you can become involved and then hang on far after the shelf life is expired in a relationship.

You’re a person who will always need your space and freedom and that often comes about early on as immersing in a relationship and then (metaphorically speaking) running out the back door at 3 a.m. while pulling your pants up. You have a habit of leaving more than your share of emotional collateral damage in your wake, even when you think you’re being crystal clear about your non-committal status.

You tend to feel trapped, confined, and stifled. Love can elude you when you’re unable to cope with the day-to-day realities that a true partnership brings to the table where every moment isn’t intensely engaged with your high level of self-focused standards.

A reason why you might push love away?     Need for unabashed freedom mixed with self-indulgence.