Why You Might Push Love Away | 7 Life Path

Why You Might Push Love Away |

7 Life Path

Our involvement with love and relationships are one of the primary reasons we’re here in this world.

As a numerologist, this is one of the key elements people want more insight about. I’m always asked why a relationship didn’t work or how to attract the perfect partner.

Mostly I’m asked: “So what’s my problem? What am I doing wrong? What am I missing?”

Understand that we all have unique issues that influence the way we engage with and approach relationships—whether those are relationships with our family, friends, colleagues or lovers.

Yet knowing some of the innate challenges you might experience is always beneficial and offers some potential insight and areas of illumination that can be useful in defining and understanding how you present yourself in your relationship life and what some of those shadows might be that sneak up and sabotage us.

Knowing your Life Path number is similar to knowing your Sun Sign in astrology.

I would suggest that you broaden your understanding of the complexity of how you might deal with love and relationship by looking at both your Life Path number and also your Expression number, which can be compared in some ways to the Rising Sign in astrology.

So if you know both of those, it’s suggested to read the explanation for both.

Ultimately, when looking at relationship compatibility, I also focus on the Soul Urge number.

Since we’re examining how you might push love away, don’t take these observations personally.

This is what the numbers bring to you, after all! Instead position yourself to look through a viewfinder of curiosity rather than judgment. This is designed to be informative, not critical or judgmental.

Ah, the enigma that is you, oh-7 Life Path! The Seeker. The Spiritualist. The Analyst. The Perfectionist. The Skeptic. The Hermit.

A 7 Life Path’s optimal expression is being attuned equally to intuition and intellect, wisdom, being at peace with yourself, and not being afraid to open up emotionally to others.

Your personal mission is to develop trust and openness in every aspect of your life. You’re a smoldering mystery to others and sometimes to yourself!

When it comes to love, you’re often kinda’ into it and—then again—kinda’ not. You need your alone time, your processing time, and your unplugged time.

Yet that doesn’t preclude a beautiful love partnership!

It does point to the fact that your levels of communication about your need for space need to be heightened when you’re in a relationship. And let’s not forget your perfectionism and your heady intellect.

Often you’d rather concentrate your efforts on doing whatever it is that’s capturing your imagination than to take your head out of that etheric world and devote yourself to a relationship on terra-firma.

You can push love away when your intellect blocks out or overrides your heart or your emotions on a consistent basis. In many ways, love is something that you desire on a more theoretical level. You’re the analyst after all! It’s as though you keep yourself one-step away from the actual experience and instead end up being halfway in and halfway out—part active participant, part passive observer. And while sex and intimacy can play a prominent role for some 7s, often this aspect of life takes a secondary position on your list of priorities.

A reason why you might push love away?     Over-intellectualizing mixed with detached judgment.