Why You Might Push Love Away | 9 Life Path

Why You Might Push Love Away |

9 Life Path

Our involvement with love and relationships are one of the primary reasons we’re here in this world.

As a numerologist, this is one of the key elements people want more insight about. I’m always asked why a relationship didn’t work or how to attract the perfect partner.

Mostly I’m asked: “So what’s my problem? What am I doing wrong? What am I missing?”

Understand that we all have unique issues that influence the way we engage with and approach relationships—whether those are relationships with our family, friends, colleagues or lovers.

Yet knowing some of the innate challenges you might experience is always beneficial and offers some potential insight and areas of illumination that can be useful in defining and understanding how you present yourself in your relationship life and what some of those shadows might be that sneak up and sabotage us.

Knowing your Life Path number is similar to knowing your Sun Sign in astrology.

I would suggest that you broaden your understanding of the complexity of how you might deal with love and relationship by looking at both your Life Path number and also your Expression number, which can be compared in some ways to the Rising Sign in astrology.

So if you know both of those, it’s suggested to read the explanation for both.

Ultimately, when looking at relationship compatibility, I also focus on the Soul Urge number.

Since we’re examining how you might push love away, don’t take these observations personally.

This is what the numbers bring to you, after all! Instead position yourself to look through a viewfinder of curiosity rather than judgment. This is designed to be informative, not critical or judgmental.

The 9 Life Path is full of compassion and brimming with love. Your highest and best is in giving back to the world with gifts and talents, detachment from old family wounds, empathetic listening, and being open to new experiences every day.

Your life’s purpose is to live in with the highest integrity, to align your life’s purpose with your heart’s intuitive wisdom, and to serve with altruism.

Your life is meant to be expansive, creative, and spiritually challenging. The number 9 is the number of endings—of completions, surrender, and letting go.

Yours is a path of charisma, creativity, and compassionate service.

When it comes to love, you’re a hopeless romantic. You have high ideals about love and about how intimacy should play out in your world.

Most often the 9 Life Path is the ultimate giver and yet you’re learning how to give and to receive, without conditions and without control.

You’re highly emotional and yet can have trouble navigating your own emotions and the emotions of others. You’re learning to extract yourself from co-dependent relationships across the board—from family of origin to your intimate partner. Some 9s can be emotional hoarders—hanging on to the past as if you’re grasping at a lifeboat while drowning. You’re certainly at your best when you’re moving with the flow rather than ensconced in old stories about the past and replaying old hurtful experiences.

You can push love away when default into doing things your way without taking your lovers desires into consideration. The irony here is that you’re often over-doing in your relationship, yet it can be more in line with control and a lack of interest in listening and hearing others. You can be the ultimate enabler.

You must let your guard down and ask for what you need because your needs aren’t easily read by others—you have to ask for help. You’re the type of person who can literally be drowning in quick sand and yet when there’s a person passing by who notices you’re in a precarious position and asks if you need help, you’re the first one to wave them off and assert that “everything’s fine.” This is a hard one for you. In relationship you want to please and also would love to be adored by your partner. Yet often love is only acceptable to you on your own terms and your terms only.

The reason why you might push love away?     Unrealistic romanticism mixed with enabling.