Why You Might Push Love Away | 4 Life Path

Why You Might Push Love Away |

4 Life Path

Our involvement with love and relationships are one of the primary reasons we’re here in this world.

As a numerologist, this is one of the key elements people want more insight about. I’m always asked why a relationship didn’t work or how to attract the perfect partner.

Mostly I’m asked: “So what’s my problem? What am I doing wrong? What am I missing?”

Understand that we all have unique issues that influence the way we engage with and approach relationships—whether those are relationships with our family, friends, colleagues or lovers.

Yet knowing some of the innate challenges you might experience is always beneficial and offers some potential insight and areas of illumination that can be useful in defining and understanding how you present yourself in your relationship life and what some of those shadows might be that sneak up and sabotage us.

Knowing your Life Path number is similar to knowing your Sun Sign in astrology.

I would suggest that you broaden your understanding of the complexity of how you might deal with love and relationship by looking at both your Life Path number and also your Expression number, which can be compared in some ways to the Rising Sign in astrology.

So if you know both of those, it’s suggested to read the explanation for both.

Ultimately, when looking at relationship compatibility, I also focus on the Soul Urge number.

Since we’re examining how you might push love away, don’t take these observations personally.

This is what the numbers bring to you, after all! Instead position yourself to look through a viewfinder of curiosity rather than judgment. This is designed to be informative, not critical or judgmental.

The 4 Life Path is “Practical Polly” (or “Practical Paul”). You’re detail oriented and work to establish a strong sense of security. Your personal mission is to develop stability and process in every aspect of your life. Your life’s purpose is to achieve stability and security by patiently following a gradual process toward your goals. You’re a seeker of knowledge and often take on the role of teacher.

When it comes to love, you’re often not particularly gregarious or risk-taking. You prefer something tried-and-true, whether it’s between the sheets or with the daily routine. You’re honest, trustworthy, and loyal and demand the same from anyone with whom you might share your bed and your life. You’re dependable and thrive on the predictable. Most often you take a dominant role in your relationship, whether you’re male or female. You’re the one who takes charge and sets down the rules of engagement.

You can push love away by being emotionally distant or emotionally unavailable. Often this is based in a history of being hurt, abandoned, or abused—which can be something you know about yourself consciously or don’t understand about yourself because it can be an unconscious element of your life. Love can elude you because you can be practical rather than romantic and pragmatic rather than open to experimentation and spontaneity. Relationships can become something that is part of your daily punch-list rather than a symbiotic alchemy between you and your partner. The 4 Life Path can be the ultimate realist, which can either create a more “workaday” approach to your love life or make you shy away from investing yourself in a relationship at all.

A reason why you might push love away?     Being emotionally wounded mixed with a need for control.