4 PERSONAL YEAR
6 Personal Month
Thanksgiving is your theme for the month. It’s a time for truly and deeply giving thanks and focusing on your attitude of gratitude. Allow yourself to fully focus on home and family this month. When you radiate peace, love, and understanding you’re riding the wave of the optimal energy for November. Enjoy some romantic interludes if possible. Go for the “warm and fuzzy” feelings you can generate. The focus is also on children—your own, the children in your life, or just children in general. It’s a great time to engage with the child within yourself—to investigate and nurture those aspects of yourself that still need acknowledgment and play time.
It’s a great time to engage with the child within yourself—to investigate and nurture those aspects of yourself that still need acknowledgment and play time.
The energy of the number 6 is a domestic energy and will prod you to take care of any building or remodeling matters or any financial affairs that need clarification or resolution—especially between November 2nd and 11th. You’ll be motivated to achieve more harmony and balance in your home. Perhaps it’s time for a little redecorating, clearing out the closets, donating some of those old items in order to make room for something new and fresh.
In November, all issues related to your sense of responsibility will be under review. It’s your job to find a moderate and successful balance.
Responsibilities are highlighted this month. During the week of November 14th, you’ll want to review and adjust your own duties and responsibilities and the obligations of other family members. Order is required for you to think straight and find ease in your home life. You’ll be faced with opportunities to separate your own responsibilities from the responsibilities of others. And while this may sound easy enough, I’ll guarantee it’s an ongoing venture. Do you take on everyone’s issues and responsibilities—and then resent it? Do you meddle and control? Do you know how everyone else should be living their lives and get exasperated when they don’t do what you feel they should do? Alternately, do you hoist your own responsibilities over to others to contend with? Do you lean toward self-righteousness in your dealings with others? Do you extract yourself from your dealings with family, friends, and colleagues? In November, all issues related to your sense of responsibility will be under review. It’s your job to find a moderate and successful balance.
It’s up to you to make this month a time of healing, beauty, warmth, and harmony. Keep in mind that you don’t have to be right all the time. Yes, it’s a delicate balance. Know that everyone lives their own reality and is on their own personal journey. Often it’s beneficial to step back and see how some of your own decisions in your life have most likely not been in alignment with what your close friends and family would have considered to be in your own best interest. Oh, remember that first marriage? The facial tattoo? Yet you did it anyway, right? The same with those around you. Truly see the perfection of the imperfection of where everyone is right now—including yourself.
Alan Watts offers some wise words that can shift perspective about how you might judge yourself again and again. He suggests that: “…The existence of the universe is basically playful. There is no necessity for it whatsoever. It isn’t going anywhere. It doesn’t have a destination to which it ought to arrive. It is best understood by its analogy to music. Because music, as an art form, is essentially playful. We say you play the piano, you don’t work the piano. Why? Music differs from, say, travel. When you travel, you’re trying to get somewhere. In music one doesn’t make the end of the composition the point of the composition. If that were so, the best conductors would be the ones who played the fastest. And there would be composers who only wrote finales. … same way with dancing. You don’t aim at a particular point in a room because that’s where you will arrive. The whole point of the dancing is the dance.”
Are you feeling that change is in the air? You might find yourself considering an eventual change of location or residence.
Understand that November is a great time to beautify your living space and to tap into your creativity and originality. Bring a festive and nurturing atmosphere to your home environment. Make time for the people in your life. Be there to listen, encourage, and inspire. Are you feeling that change is in the air? You might find yourself considering an eventual change of location or residence. The coming year ushers in a vital and movement-oriented energy and it’s already starting to call your name. Get ready for an adventurous ride.